Communicating effectively with your boss

It doesn’t matter where you sit in an organisation’s hierarchy. How well you communicate with your boss directly impacts perceptions of your performance and your level of success or otherwise.

Key reasons for you to foster regular, open and transparent, two-way communication with your boss include:

What to Communicate and Why

As a two way street, communication with your boss is both about you getting what you need to keep your team moving forward and your boss getting what they need to give them confidence that you are doing the job you have been asked to do.

Consistency and timeliness of message is imperative if you are to get what you need from them, and for them to get what they need from you.

The first step is to establish with them what they need or want. Some bosses will want all the detail available, and more! Some will be at the other end of the spectrum and only want to know if there is something they should know about and leave the judgement on what to tell them and when to tell them to you. Neither approach is recommended so finding somewhere in the middle will work best.

Irrespective of frequency, format or method the key things to keep your boss informed about are:

1. Progress and Status

Keeping your boss advised on your progress enables them to respond to information requests from their stakeholders. Ask them how they would like you to keep them updated. They might be happy with a verbal update at their regular team meetings or welcome a weekly one-page summary in a specific format.

At minimum answer the following questions:

Many bosses will operate on the principle of “no surprises” so if something is a potential risk let them know early. No one will thank you for sitting on an issue that could have been easily resolved if addressed when it arose.

2. Changes

Being across any changes is critical for you to lead your team through changes that directly impact them. You can’t keep them informed if you are not informed yourself and it is preferable that they do not hear about changes on the ‘grapevine’ before they hear about them from you. You can ask:

Your boss may ask you for your thoughts on strategy or tactical options for managing changes. Use every opportunity such as this to your advantage to demonstrate you can communicate at a strategic level as well as communicate with your team as a leader.

3. Feedback

Feedback, both good and bad is necessary for building confidence and enabling corrective adjustments if needed. Opportunities for feedback include:

If you wish to discuss your future career prospects, ask for a specific meeting and prepare for that separately.

Issues of Proximity

You may report to someone in another state or city so getting regular time with your boss might be problematic if they do not prioritise communicating with you. Make appointments and use the phone, videoconference and/or email rather than waiting for them to come to town to take them through matters of importance to you both. You will be better able to gauge what is or isn’t a matter of importance to your boss the more you communicate with them.

Having said that, working in the same building an on the same floor will not guarantee you access to your boss.

When you do work in the same location, learn and perfect the “20 second sound bite” approach for those times you meet in the corridor, lift or coffee shop. A quick thumbs up can set their mind at ease, or a couple of sentences telling them you have booked time in their diary to see them about an important issue or topic can get you on their radar.

If you have a one on one meeting and they are time poor, keep the meeting short by preparing and be very clear about the topic and what you need from them. Send a short summary of the topic by email beforehand but don’t assume they will have time to read it. Talk to the summary document at your meeting and leave it with them. It may be useful reference material for them if they need to in turn manage upwards to their boss.

One parting piece of advice is that, if it is important for them to know something urgently or you need their immediate support, don’t email. Make a phone call!

Rest assured, if your boss wants you or needs to know anything from you urgently, they will call.

If you like the photo I used for this blog article you’ll find more like it from Aleksandr Davydov on 123rf.com

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